When I observe our most elder people in the community, it is easy to assume they are sort of little shells of a life lived long ago. I see them shuffle or amble slowly at the market, sometimes shaky limbs reaching for the milk, or a hesitant hand pick over a bin of tomatoes. They seem hollow, as if getting to the market and home is about all they can manage. I often wonder what keeps them going? Looking from the outside it seems impossible that they have anything motivating them to go another day in this complex world. Generally…
From February, 2016
The Last Spring
In my role as a Realtor I have a unique view into the complexities of selling homes, and none is more layered and surprisingly emotional than selling the family home or a parent’s home. In my role as a caregiver, I just had the odd experience of being both a home seller, caregiver and Realtor and seeing it from all views. I had to find someone to help me sell my Mom’s home. The time had come. I was not prepared for the kaleidoscope of emotion this unleased. Standing on my Mom’s porch, surveying what had been her refuge…