It is clear to me in talking to hundreds of folks over 60-70, myself included, that they don’t feel old. They don’t feel much different than they did around 35.  If they are in reasonable health,  they still feel as though they should be able to move the couch across the room, tear up a flower bed, repaint the shed, left that planter, trim the hedge on a ladder.  You know, all the stuff you have done all your life. Haven’t they always done those with ease?  But there comes a time when a deep, calm voice inside says, “Defer…